Equity is the quality of being fair and impartial. Synonyms:fairness, fair-mindedness, justness, justice, equitableness, fair play
Feminism is the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. synonyms: the women's movement, the feminist movement, women's liberation, female emancipation, women's rights.
When female Nigerian 2019 presidential aspirant 'Eunice Atuejide' was asked if she was a feminist, she blatantly said no and she said Feminism doesn't always mean equity. She said Feminism means equity as far as the women get the first slice of the cake. She said she believes in 'Equity Equity' and not "Feminism Equity" which favours the women more.
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It all started with an office party. Those of you who follow me on Instagram would know that every Friday in my office is a destroy your liver with a buffet of alcohol Friday, but, this Friday was different. It was wilder. Bra’s and pants were flying around and the drinks were much. The only downside was that it was a Friday and I knew that if I didn’t leave work early I’d face a fuckload of traffic and those who know me would know that the only thing that gets me depressed is traffic in Lagos. So, illegally I left an hour before closing and I got home early. With alcohol in my system and my blood being hot I was in the mood to party and scatter Lagos so I put up a status on my social media knowing fully well I’d get offers to come party.
A few days ago after facing mad traffic on my way home and being pissed at Nigeria and everything it stood for, I entered my apartment and went straight to my bed. I laid down and stared at the ceiling, I wasn't angry or sad, neither was I depressed, neither was I happy. I have a good job(Kinda), the pay is nice(KinIa), i don't hate my job(True) and everything seemed to be going slow but smooth but still, I just didn't feel fulfilled. I felt something was missing, if only i could gaze into my future and see wht my future held. Would it be bright? would it be dire? I was just curious.
It's funny, a lot of Nigerians are fond of dissing Catholics and saying the Catholics worship Mary. Some even go as far as saying Catholics are fanatics who are idol worshipers because they bow to statues but when Beverly Osu wears a Nun's costume these same people come for her saying she's shitting on Christians and their faith. Guys, keep the same energy.
Recently, I stumbled across a video where some ladies were debating about an issue of a man who removed his woman's wombs for reasons known to him. While all the women in the debate agreed that what he did was utter crap and wrong, one woman saw it from a different angle and this is what she had to say.
As we all know, the Tennis French opening announced their new dress code and it in no way favoured Serena Williams dressing. The usual dress code for female tennis players is a short skirt and a polo top or a sleeveless top. Serena Williams use to wear that but recently after her childbirth, she decided to wear a Nike designed Black Panther type of suit so people kinda feel the dress code rule was made because of her. They felt the new dress code of conduct was updated just to make her stop wearing her suit.
Another day another complain. The Feminists in the US recently complained about patriarchy and equity. Their new complaint is about Siri and other automated voice commands on our mobile devices. They said it's wrong that Siri's voice is a woman's voice, that it means the men in Tech are trying to portray that women are servants and submissive, they say it encourages patriarchy and pushes the agenda that women should be subjected to doing what men want them to do. They then flashed back to the past when wives were basically the servants of their husbands asking their husbands what they wanted them to do, 'Your dinner is ready, would you like beef or chicken', 'Can I do this for you' etc.
I remember the first time I went to a buffet, I think I was 9 or so, my mum dropped some wise nuggets that would forever stick with me. She said 'Eat the food we don't eat at home and you have no business touching any Nigerian food', these words will forever stick with me and I'll pass them on to my kids and they too shall pass it on to their kids.
The short video below shows a few scholars and paedophiles trying to sway people into believing that being a paedophile should be accepted and paedophiles should have a space in our society. I have a theory and it stipulates that If the USA approves or gives rooms to Pedophiles, the whole world would lean towards that ideology and Nigeria would be the first to copy and paste the act.
So, lets create two realistic Characters... Osa and Chioma. Osa has been toasting Chioma for a while and after series of dates and making out Chioma finally sleeps over and well, they both get down. Osa starts with foreplay and he kisses her, then gives her head and then has sex with her, two rounds. Round one they do doggy style and Osa pounds the hell out of Chioma, round two Osa tells Chioma to ride him and she gives him the usual mediocre riding Nigerian ladies give guys, the Lazy riding. Maybe it's the ladies riding Buhari was referring to when he called the youths lazy(Dry Jokes Wednesday). Osa cums and he's happy but Chioma didn't cum and she lowkey resents Osa for not making her cum.
Last week I shot an IG TV video talking about three ways women can stop rape when it’s about to happen. I mentioned that they should Scream, Fight back and finally threaten the rapist with the law and the chances of them eventually being raped would drastically reduce. I had some female friends tackle me and say my video is flawed and those three things won’t do jack, as usual I had a strong head and didn’t listen to them because I felt that If (GOD FORBID) I was in the shoes of a rapist and a girl did these three things to me, I’d immediately stop. Apparently, not everyone thinks the way I do.
Ever noticed how when a lion is hunting a herd of buffalos it goes for either the weak ones who are wounded or deformed, or it goes for the calf who can barely run because it knows that going for the fit and healthy buffalo is a waste of its precious time and energy.
Recently, a radical Nigerian feminist popularly known for falsely accusing men of rape tweeted a post that shook a lot of tables and took jabs at Nigerian churches and some men. She insinuated that God is a He and if God can be called a He then He might as well be referred to as a SHE. While a whole bunch of Nigerians are making mockery and jest of her because they believe she’s spewing utter folly, I actually believe she has a valid point and for some weird reasons, I actually agree with what she’s saying.
I'll keep saying this, LADIES GIVE SEX TOO MUCH POWER. Let's imagine two gay guys meet in a party and one thing leads to another and they both have sex, I highly doubt any of them would ask themselves 'Does he think I'm cheap'. Let's now imagine a guy and a girl go on a date and things end in the bedroom, let's go on a limb and have a wild guess on who's probably going to ask themselves if the other party thinks they are cheap. For centuries ladies have consoled themselves with the faux that "Because they sleep with men the first date the men would deem them cheap". I'm tired of hearing such fables and I'm here to debunk it with solid facts as to why that man probably didn't call you back after sleeping with you on the first date...... or 5th date.
Once upon a time, long long ago, the British soldiers came to the Benin part of Bendel(now know as edo state) and tried to make the Benin people their bitch. The Benin people resisted and chased them away and in retaliation, the British soldiers came back with more sophisticated weapons and invaded Benin. In the invasion, they found loads of art artifacts and natural resources like elephant tusks and stole almost everything. IS THE NIGERIAN GOD OMNIPRESENT?
Decades later Nigeria holla's at the Uk and begs them to loan them the Edo artifacts that they have an event and want to use the artifacts as a display. The British government says no. Nigeria then says they'd pay millions of pounds to rent it, still, the British people declined. They declined to loan us OUR STOLEN artifacts.
It just hit me that no one is talking about it, granted, the current British empire didn't do the stealing, their ancestors did. But, don't we think its about time that they returned OUR art resources. If truly we wanted to have it back our leaders could petition it and actually sue the British government and make them return it. As we all know, our government would rather face trivial issues like banning Shisha and approving child marriages. WHY SLUT SHAMING OF WOMEN IS VERY COUNTER INTUITIVE
Recently, I was listening to an American podcast hosted by two white women where they talk about relationships and sex. In their latest episode, they talked about having sex on their period and how good it is. After a while things went dark and they started shaming men who refused to engage in sex when their women were on their monthly cycle saying utter balderdash like "If he doesn't fvck you when you're on do away with him","Only real men can handle a woman with blood", "He doesn't deserve to have you if he doesn't go down on you when you're bleeding"... Bla Bla Bla(ck sheep have you any wool. Yes sir, yes sir three bags full).
A widower has 5 kids, he's very poor and his means of lively hood is being a bricklayer. He toils day and night to provide for his kids and sends them all to school and puts food on the table. There's another man somewhere, a random bus driver with a wife and kids. Just like the bricklayer he sweats and toils all day to provide for the family and puts food on the table, but guess what, no one gives a rats ass and no one celebrates them.
Let's reverse the roles. A single mother of 5 works as a bricklayer to provide for her 5 kids and sends them to school. Or, a married woman who has 3 kids is seen driving a commercial bus and making ends meet, they'd probably end up on instablog9ja with the whole Nigeria praising them for providing for their family and doing what A MAN is meant to do. *echoes* DOING WHAT A MAN IS MEANT TO DO.
Gender roles. I'd define it but I'm assuming my readers are sophisticated enough to know what it means. If we're being real and we drop the cloak of being 'fake woke', Men are meant to provide and women belong in the kitchen. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying her only job is to cook and clean, I mean when it comes to providing and protecting the man should do it and when it comes to nurturing and cooking the woman should do it. Even though we all act like these aren't true and meant to be, we praise women who are the breadwinners and women praise men who happen to be good cooks. Notice how nobody cares if a woman cooks well? That's because deep down we expect her to be able to cook and we scold women who don't know how to cook but we don't scold men. Same way when a woman is the breadwinner of the house, we praise them and even though the husband is trying to help her we still look down on him and look at him like less of a man.
No matter how Woke and Feminist we all claim to be, deep down we still follow the rules of gender roles and gender roles are the biggest enemy of feminism. If you look down on a 'House husband' whose wife is the breadwinner while he does the cooking, cleaning and other stuff house wifes do, then it means you believe and follow gender roles. And, if you follow gender roles then it means you're not a feminist. You can shout on twitter and talk about feminist and equity and whatnot but if you scold a woman who always gives her man money and provides for him, you should take a seat and keep 'Kwayet', because if reverse was the role and you saw a man providing for his housewife while she took care of the home, you wouldn't flinch or bat an eyelash.
Ever noticed how most Igbo men are big time entrepreneurs and how it’s close to impossible to see an Igbo man beg on the streets. Those who served and taught in schools in the east would testify that mostly girls go to secondary schools while the boys prefer to work. In the Igbo household, they wire the boys at a young age to believe that owning their business is the way out.
WARNING: This dope article contains spoilers of Tyler Perry's Movie "Acrimony". Now That we've clarified that, Let's dive into the story.
I recently saw a Tyler Perry movie titled 'Acrimony' where the plot centred around a poor dude dating a rich girl which he eventually married. During their course of the relationship, the sane woman gave him money and footed all his bill while he spent his whole life working on an invention of his and not really contributing anything to the home (except good D).
'When a rich nigga wants you, and your niggacan't do nothing for ya. These Hoes Ain't Loyal'. Chris Brown, 2014 Men are scum, Men are scum. This has been the anthem worldwide by almost all ladies. Many women have caught their husbands cheating and having extramarital affairs so the general consensus has been that men are scum. On the other side lies men who don't have half the trust issues their wives have. They rarely suspect their wives of cheating and even if they
It’s ironic, you spend years studying the law, and your first act is to disobey the same law that you spent years studying.. All because of Religion? The same religion that would tell you not to marry a person who’s from your village and tribe all because you don’t believe in the same messenger yet you worship the same God. The same religion that would tell you not to marry someone from another church even though you literally worship the same Jesus and God. The same religion that would tell you not to eat pork because a prophet in the past didn’t like pork and called it unclean, the religion that says alcohol is evil but allows people to smoke weed because weed wasn’t mentioned in the holy book.
Feminism can be defined as the advocacy of women’s rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. Radical Feminism is a movement which aims to eliminate the rights of men and non-feminist women and deny people the freedom of speech.
As we all know, the Nigerian church is divided, so divided that we have churches (who apparently worship the same God and Jesus)
I noticed a new trend online (mostly on Twitter and Instagram) where when ladies are asked about their spec in a man ALL of them talk about how they love men who are tall, dark, handsome and whatnot, but most of them then segway and start taking jabs at short men talking about how they can’t date or marry a short man because blablablack sheep.
They talk about how short men have tempers and ‘short man syndrome’ but
Recently I and a few of my friends (who just got back) decided to hang out and have some drinks and disturb Lagos, we anonymously decided the location to meet should be somewhere on the island and I suggested we chill at freedom park because it’s classy, affordable and they have Karaoke at night. Also because their food is lowkey affordable and all the cool woke kids tend to hang there. So after a few hours of drinking, eating and
One of my resolution for 2018 is to say K to everyone (mostly girls) who’d call me and says “Ope, so if I didn’t call you wouldn’t call me abi, that’s how you’ve forgotten me and left me”. It pisses me off that people (mostly women, and no I’m not a chauvinist, I’m just being real) tend to use emotional blackmail and guilt when they call to say Hi. Can’t we all just be
We’ve heard ladies talk about how they’d love a man who has a third leg and an anaconda between his thighs(That means a big penis, just in case you didn’t grab), how they’d love to have a man who’s anaconda is so big it would destroy their uterine wall and take them to cloud 9. In my short lifetime, I’ve come to realise that it’s all bants for social media.
So, a guy is toasting a girl and invites her over to his place. He cooks her a nice meal and makes cocktails for her. One thing leads to another and they make out and maybe he got lucky and he inserted his mandingo into her honey pot, or maybe it didn’t and he didn’t insert his mandingo into her honey pot. It’s time for her to leave and he orders an uber for her and pays, and then she hints he gives her a ‘Thank you for coming money’,
Sometime last week a video of Nicki Minaj trying to speak in an African Accent surfaced online and most people thought it was the cutest thing, then there were the sourpuss who took offence to the video and said ‘Africa doesn’t have just one accent, it’s wrong to say you’re speaking in an African accent and I’m offended by this video’.
Recently, a friend of mine was complaining to me that one of his side things came over to his house to spend the night and when it was time to do the do she said she couldn’t. He then asked her if she was on her period and she said she wasn’t, she then explained to him that it was lent season in the Catholic church and she was fasting from food and sex that after the lent season she would use sex to destroy his life. What pissed him off was that he had to pay her uber money back to her place and whatnot, but that’s not the issue in this article.
This article in no way supports or defends cheating. Cheating is a bad thing that shouldn’t be engaged in and it should also be frowned upon. Now that we’ve clarified that, let’s dive into this article.
Well, the stories and articles pretty much say all there is to know about me. Read at least 7 random stories and maybe, just maybe you can say you know me.