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WHAT THE HELL IS ‘THANK YOU FOR COMING’ MONEY?

08:24:00Opeyemi Famakin

So, a guy is toasting a girl and invites her over to his place. He cooks her a nice meal and makes cocktails for her. One thing leads to another and they make out and maybe he got lucky and he inserted his mandingo into her honey pot, or maybe it didn’t and he didn’t insert his mandingo into her honey pot. It’s time for her to leave and he orders an uber for her and pays, and then she hints he gives her a ‘Thank you for coming money’,
If he doesn’t she’d probably give him a stinky eye or rant on twitter.
My question is this, What makes this girl and a callgirl different? It’s no news that Nigerian women feel extra entitled when a man is wooing them. They feel the man must move mountains when he’s trying to get with them and before it was all cute and dandy but now it’s downright disgusting and it belittles the women. The other day I overheard ladies talking about a dude who one of them went to visit and when she was leaving the dude gave her Thank you for coming money and also paid her Uber. Paying for her uber is a little extra, not bad, but extra but then giving her ‘Thank you for coming money’, WTF is that all about.
Let’s assume reverse was the case, let’s assume the guy went to visit the woman in her abode and he was about leaving, would she pay for his uber? Would she even dream of giving him thank you for coming money? It would still be the same. He’d come, she’d cook him a nice meal and when he’s about to leave he’d give her a ‘thank you for cooking for me’ money. Later on, these women who feel so entitled would be screaming feminism and equity. Valentine’s day is close by, as usual men would move mountains just to please their women and 70% of women in relationships would collect and not give the man anything. Later on, they’d say it’s a mans world.

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