Equity is the quality of being fair and impartial. Synonyms:fairness, fair-mindedness, justness, justice, equitableness, fair play
Feminism is the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. synonyms: the women's movement, the feminist movement, women's liberation, female emancipation, women's rights.
When female Nigerian 2019 presidential aspirant 'Eunice Atuejide' was asked if she was a feminist, she blatantly said no and she said Feminism doesn't always mean equity. She said Feminism means equity as far as the women get the first slice of the cake. She said she believes in 'Equity Equity' and not "Feminism Equity" which favours the women more.
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It's funny, a lot of Nigerians are fond of dissing Catholics and saying the Catholics worship Mary. Some even go as far as saying Catholics are fanatics who are idol worshipers because they bow to statues but when Beverly Osu wears a Nun's costume these same people come for her saying she's shitting on Christians and their faith. Guys, keep the same energy.
As we all know, the Tennis French opening announced their new dress code and it in no way favoured Serena Williams dressing. The usual dress code for female tennis players is a short skirt and a polo top or a sleeveless top. Serena Williams use to wear that but recently after her childbirth, she decided to wear a Nike designed Black Panther type of suit so people kinda feel the dress code rule was made because of her. They felt the new dress code of conduct was updated just to make her stop wearing her suit.
I remember the first time I went to a buffet, I think I was 9 or so, my mum dropped some wise nuggets that would forever stick with me. She said 'Eat the food we don't eat at home and you have no business touching any Nigerian food', these words will forever stick with me and I'll pass them on to my kids and they too shall pass it on to their kids.
Ever noticed how when a lion is hunting a herd of buffalos it goes for either the weak ones who are wounded or deformed, or it goes for the calf who can barely run because it knows that going for the fit and healthy buffalo is a waste of its precious time and energy.
Recently, a radical Nigerian feminist popularly known for falsely accusing men of rape tweeted a post that shook a lot of tables and took jabs at Nigerian churches and some men. She insinuated that God is a He and if God can be called a He then He might as well be referred to as a SHE. While a whole bunch of Nigerians are making mockery and jest of her because they believe she’s spewing utter folly, I actually believe she has a valid point and for some weird reasons, I actually agree with what she’s saying.
Once upon a time, long long ago, the British soldiers came to the Benin part of Bendel(now know as edo state) and tried to make the Benin people their bitch. The Benin people resisted and chased them away and in retaliation, the British soldiers came back with more sophisticated weapons and invaded Benin. In the invasion, they found loads of art artifacts and natural resources like elephant tusks and stole almost everything. IS THE NIGERIAN GOD OMNIPRESENT?
Decades later Nigeria holla's at the Uk and begs them to loan them the Edo artifacts that they have an event and want to use the artifacts as a display. The British government says no. Nigeria then says they'd pay millions of pounds to rent it, still, the British people declined. They declined to loan us OUR STOLEN artifacts.
It just hit me that no one is talking about it, granted, the current British empire didn't do the stealing, their ancestors did. But, don't we think its about time that they returned OUR art resources. If truly we wanted to have it back our leaders could petition it and actually sue the British government and make them return it. As we all know, our government would rather face trivial issues like banning Shisha and approving child marriages. WHY SLUT SHAMING OF WOMEN IS VERY COUNTER INTUITIVE
A widower has 5 kids, he's very poor and his means of lively hood is being a bricklayer. He toils day and night to provide for his kids and sends them all to school and puts food on the table. There's another man somewhere, a random bus driver with a wife and kids. Just like the bricklayer he sweats and toils all day to provide for the family and puts food on the table, but guess what, no one gives a rats ass and no one celebrates them.
Let's reverse the roles. A single mother of 5 works as a bricklayer to provide for her 5 kids and sends them to school. Or, a married woman who has 3 kids is seen driving a commercial bus and making ends meet, they'd probably end up on instablog9ja with the whole Nigeria praising them for providing for their family and doing what A MAN is meant to do. *echoes* DOING WHAT A MAN IS MEANT TO DO.
Gender roles. I'd define it but I'm assuming my readers are sophisticated enough to know what it means. If we're being real and we drop the cloak of being 'fake woke', Men are meant to provide and women belong in the kitchen. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying her only job is to cook and clean, I mean when it comes to providing and protecting the man should do it and when it comes to nurturing and cooking the woman should do it. Even though we all act like these aren't true and meant to be, we praise women who are the breadwinners and women praise men who happen to be good cooks. Notice how nobody cares if a woman cooks well? That's because deep down we expect her to be able to cook and we scold women who don't know how to cook but we don't scold men. Same way when a woman is the breadwinner of the house, we praise them and even though the husband is trying to help her we still look down on him and look at him like less of a man.
No matter how Woke and Feminist we all claim to be, deep down we still follow the rules of gender roles and gender roles are the biggest enemy of feminism. If you look down on a 'House husband' whose wife is the breadwinner while he does the cooking, cleaning and other stuff house wifes do, then it means you believe and follow gender roles. And, if you follow gender roles then it means you're not a feminist. You can shout on twitter and talk about feminist and equity and whatnot but if you scold a woman who always gives her man money and provides for him, you should take a seat and keep 'Kwayet', because if reverse was the role and you saw a man providing for his housewife while she took care of the home, you wouldn't flinch or bat an eyelash.
Ever noticed how most Igbo men are big time entrepreneurs and how it’s close to impossible to see an Igbo man beg on the streets. Those who served and taught in schools in the east would testify that mostly girls go to secondary schools while the boys prefer to work. In the Igbo household, they wire the boys at a young age to believe that owning their business is the way out.
'When a rich nigga wants you, and your niggacan't do nothing for ya. These Hoes Ain't Loyal'. Chris Brown, 2014 Men are scum, Men are scum. This has been the anthem worldwide by almost all ladies. Many women have caught their husbands cheating and having extramarital affairs so the general consensus has been that men are scum. On the other side lies men who don't have half the trust issues their wives have. They rarely suspect their wives of cheating and even if they
I noticed a new trend online (mostly on Twitter and Instagram) where when ladies are asked about their spec in a man ALL of them talk about how they love men who are tall, dark, handsome and whatnot, but most of them then segway and start taking jabs at short men talking about how they can’t date or marry a short man because blablablack sheep.
They talk about how short men have tempers and ‘short man syndrome’ but
Recently I and a few of my friends (who just got back) decided to hang out and have some drinks and disturb Lagos, we anonymously decided the location to meet should be somewhere on the island and I suggested we chill at freedom park because it’s classy, affordable and they have Karaoke at night. Also because their food is lowkey affordable and all the cool woke kids tend to hang there. So after a few hours of drinking, eating and
One of my resolution for 2018 is to say K to everyone (mostly girls) who’d call me and says “Ope, so if I didn’t call you wouldn’t call me abi, that’s how you’ve forgotten me and left me”. It pisses me off that people (mostly women, and no I’m not a chauvinist, I’m just being real) tend to use emotional blackmail and guilt when they call to say Hi. Can’t we all just be
We’ve heard ladies talk about how they’d love a man who has a third leg and an anaconda between his thighs(That means a big penis, just in case you didn’t grab), how they’d love to have a man who’s anaconda is so big it would destroy their uterine wall and take them to cloud 9. In my short lifetime, I’ve come to realise that it’s all bants for social media.
So, a guy is toasting a girl and invites her over to his place. He cooks her a nice meal and makes cocktails for her. One thing leads to another and they make out and maybe he got lucky and he inserted his mandingo into her honey pot, or maybe it didn’t and he didn’t insert his mandingo into her honey pot. It’s time for her to leave and he orders an uber for her and pays, and then she hints he gives her a ‘Thank you for coming money’,
This article in no way supports or defends cheating. Cheating is a bad thing that shouldn’t be engaged in and it should also be frowned upon. Now that we’ve clarified that, let’s dive into this article.
Back in our forefathers days when their wives gave birth, they’d stay outside the hut and drink palm wine and brukutu with their friends while the midwives stayed indoors with the wife and delivered the child. Everything was cool and no one complained.
Why do girls do it? Why is it that when a guy asks a girl on a date she asks if she can bring her friend along? Why? I can understand if a guy invites a girl over to his place and she says she wants to bring a friend along, but why would you ask to bring a friend along on an outdoor date? Sometimes it’s not about the fact that the dude who asked you on the date would spend more, but, it’s just annoying and most time it tends to kill the vibe.
I’ve written various articles about women always tackling men when a man talks about his spec in a woman. If a black American man mistakenly says he PREFERS white women, ALL the black American women would eat him raw and spit him out. Same in Nigeria, if a man mistakenly says he prefers a light-skinned woman who is skinny, he’s dead. You’d think the person just cursed God and said the devil is his personal lord and saviour.
Remember how we were all told as young kids that for us to be successful we had to go to good schools in Nigeria and study good courses and graduate with good grades. We were told that if we had a 1st class or a strong 2’1 we were guaranteed the best jobs. We were even told that having a masters was an overkill and going for a PhD made you a living God. What if I told you all that applied only in 1988 and is now obsolete in the 21st century Nigeria.
If we’re being honest, men can be scum sometimes with the things they do and what they say. How? Well, a lot of times women say the reason they bleach is because their man said he’d prefer if they were light skinned *Coughs.. Toke Makinwa*, while nobody believes that excuse it tends to be true a lot of times.
Word on the street is that the Prime Minister of the U.K. is putting pressure on the Nigerian government to ban the anti-gay law. I have mixed feelings about this though. The first feeling is ‘Who the hell is the U.K. to pressurize Nigeria and tell us what to do?’, the second is ‘Well, the anti-gay is actually barbaric and is pointless’ so I understand why they are pressuring us to remove the ban.
Kings, we’re in big trouble. Remember how our dads use to tell us that we should go for girls with inner beauty and forego these hot girls because most of them are trouble, apparently our dads were correct. If we’re being honest, this is the era of the Slayqueen and most guys would rather go for a hot chick who has little to no personality. As far as the girl is eye candy and she’s someone whom they can brag about, most guys are good.
While growing up, I was made to believe that God is an omnipresent God, Meaning that God is everywhere at the same time. But, as I grew older I was also made to believe that even though prayer and worship are good and should be done everywhere it’s best to be done in the Nigerian Church or Mosque.
There’s a popular saying that goes ‘No Man Is Ugly’, while that might be a chauvinistic thing to say it might be a bit true… at least for the Nigerian man. When most Nigerian men get hitched they still put in a bit of work in their looks and they try their best to look young and hip, if at all they’d let themselves go they’d probably have a beer belly. If we’re being real the major reason they do this is to look attractive for their side chicks (since that’s what Nigerian ladies tend to believe). The same can’t be said for their wives though.
If you’re a Nigerian youth who has a smartphone and is internet savvy and you have no idea about Davido lavishing his girlfriend Chioma with gifts, quickly give yourself 5 hot slaps. Davido and Chioma have been trending on the Nigerian internet space this week because he threw her a Lavish pre-birthday party, wrote a song called ‘Assurance’ for her and shot a video for it, threw a lavish birthday party, opened a restaurant for her, got her a Porsche car and is allegedly going to send her to a top-notch culinary school abroad.
For these various reasons Nigerian ladies have been shouting they also want their assurance and have been envying Davido’s girlfriend praying they find a man who would treat them exactly the way Davido treated Chioma. I say to these ladies, ‘Be careful about what you wish for, cuz you just might get it’.
Let’s dissect their relationship. Davido and Chioma have been dating for the past 5 years and within those 5 years, he’s had two kids with two different women. There’s an alleged third kid but there’s no proof to back that up. Also, countless numbers of times when he goes on tour he posts videos of him with women who he’s going to sleep with after the show, the most recent one was a video he posted late last year in South Africa where there was a big booty woman giving him a lapdance and he carried her to his room smiling and he locked the door. Imagine watching your boyfriend do that. For the past 5 years that they’ve been dating Davido has flaunted tons of women he’s had sexual relationships with and he never flaunted Chioma. As a woman how would you feel if your boyfriend flaunted everyone but you?
Five years later Davido ‘allegedly’ changes and starts to flaunt his babe lavishing her with gifts and now every Nigerian girl wants to have what Chioma is having. Can these same girls stay with a man who secretly cheats on them, talkless of one that openly flaunts his cheating and goes ahead to have kids with different women. Even while he’s going around being a Yoruba demon would you still stand by him and consistently cook for him and his friends (I will knock you if you say yes because I know you’re one of those feminists who say they won’t cook for a man or they don’t belong in the kitchen).
We need to stop the lives of Celebrities as our prayer point just because we only see the rosy parts of it. For every positive side, you see there are most likely 4 negative sides to counter it. Another case study is Toke Makinwa, everyone thought her marriage was rosy and whatnot and they envied her, only to find out that her husband was an alleged Yoruba Demon who wasn’t stingy with his Penis.
Recently a female friend of mine called me and was complaining about how her boyfriend was a douchebag and only used her for s3x. She talked about how she’d travel across states to go and visit him and he’d treat her like a rag and make her feel inhumane, she cried and told me that he broke up with her and now she doesn’t know where to start from.
Our uncle in America, Kanye West, First of his name, Rapper and Producer, the husband of Kim Kardashian, Father of North West, a black man who is the descendants of African slaves, opened his mouth and said ‘Slavery is a choice’.
As a Nigerian Youth, I’ve always wondered why Nigeria keeps recycling the same old and shrivelled Politicians over and over again. We’ve had two presidents who have ruled us twice in different decades and once a governor is done with his term he takes up another government post like being a minister or whatnot. Nigeria is like a loose girl that a clique of old men pass around themselves and they refuse to let the young cats have their turn.
It’s been stipulated that the Catholic church slowed down science by a 100 years. Back in the medieval era, if any scientist made a discovery that went against the church they were killed, and for this reason most scientists went into hiding and inventions and discoveries were hidden and put to bed.
We assume this is a thing of the past but it’s still very much alive.
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